Strategies and tips for individuals and couples seeking to improve their personal and relational dynamics

Are you a smart, sensitive person eager for self-improvement?

Looking to have personal growth for the sake of yourself and your relatives?

Have you realized that the brute force cognitive or physical acumen is not enough to make the changes you seek?

Time to get into your wisdom.

Wisdom is a mixture of your capacity to reason with your capacity for emotion combined with intuition and body awareness. 

Wisdom may be seen as settling into your most adult self in the service of your development.  Being in your most adult self is not a copout, fakeout or admittance that life is boring.  It may be the best option for you to make headway in personal and relational growth.  

Consider times when you feel available, comfortable, and authentic.  Are you connected to your wisdom?  When you don’t feel authentic, comfortable and available, do high emotions or hyper-rationality interfere with your effectiveness?  Perhaps.  

If you seek to improve your relationships, you may need to change yourself  Through therapy, learn to be in your wisdom and expand your awareness of yourself, others, and your environment.  Doing so may be a sustainable way to meet near- and long-term goals.

These actions in support of and with your wisdom can help lead to happiness, goodwill, and personal and relational satisfaction.

You can
broaden and
harness
Your wisdom

With mindfulness to

Learn to be in the moment and make decisions that are effective and sustainable.  

Improve on knowledge, skills, and abilities for self and relational gain.

Increase perception of options.

Expand openness to the external and internal worlds.

Feel an revived sense of self as an individual and in relation to those about whom you care about.

With self-regulation and stress management to

See the importance of self-care.

Understand the function of your behaviors, the value of your feelings, and the ability to change how you feel without feeling too active or too passive.

Improve personal growth and relationships.

With behavior modification to

Mitigate the impact of costly behaviors.

Reduce secret behaviors that lead to shame.

Lose the rage quit behaviors that lead to aggressive behaviors that are expensive to make up.

With interpersonal effectiveness to

Add emphasis to self-respect and relational effectiveness when seeking objectives in a relationship.

Reduce mend me and I will fix you behaviors.

Support and cheerlead self and partner without having to settle everything.

With goals, strategies, and tactics focusing on increasing beneficial behaviors and decreasing ineffective behaviors, you develop agency to make gains across areas of your life for personal and relational benefit.

As you learn to slow down to enjoy small moments, reduce the emotional noise that interferes with growth, and improve the capacity to participate fully with patience, you can spend more time on expanding and realizing hopes and dreams for with yourself and others.

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